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Gretchen Raring, LICSW, LCSW

Therapist in New Jersey

Compassionate, practical help for life's struggles

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Profile checklist

  • CredentialsLICSW, LCSW
  • Licenses listedLCSW, New Jersey (no. 44SC05318800); LCSW, Florida (no. SW15156); LICSW, Massachusetts (no. LICSW124622); LCSW, North Dakota (no. 6418); LCSW, Arizona (no. LCSW-21898)
  • NPI number1194878371
  • Experience24 years listed
  • LanguageEnglish
  • Main areas of focusStress, Anxiety, Relationship issues, Self esteem, Depression
  • Approaches includeAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • FormatOnline sessions through BetterHelp

Details as listed on the therapist’s BetterHelp profile.

  • Focus on addictions
  • Practical tools
  • Warm collaborative style

About Gretchen

Gretchen Raring is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, addiction concerns, and big life changes. She brings a calm, straightforward presence to sessions and focuses on practical steps that can make daily life easier. Her style balances warmth with clear tools so people can try things between meetings and notice what helps.

Gretchen trained at Temple University where she earned a Master of Social Work. She has 24 years of experience across community mental health, addiction services, work with people experiencing homelessness, incarceration settings, and veteran-serving programs. That range informs a flexible approach that adapts to each person's situation.

In sessions she pairs listening with action. Conversations look at how thoughts, feelings, and relationships shape choices. Then she introduces simple strategies people can use right away to cope better and gain more control over daily stressors. She honors individual strengths while addressing barriers to change.

She uses several evidence-informed methods, including acceptance and commitment strategies, cognitive-behavioral techniques, attachment-focused ideas, emotionally focused work, and a client-centered stance. These help with mood, relationship patterns, and long-term habits that keep people stuck.

Gretchen works with teens, adults, older adults, and couples. She practices in New Jersey and conducts sessions in English. If you're unsure whether she is the right fit, it's easy to begin with a brief match and see how it goes.

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Gretchen uses acceptance and commitment strategies and cognitive-behavioral tools to help people notice what matters and change unhelpful patterns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people focus on values and take small action steps even when feelings are difficult. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) teaches simple ways to challenge thoughts and try new behaviors that reduce anxiety and improve mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Gretchen will work together with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences. That collaborative planning means techniques are adjusted as needs change so therapy stays practical and useful.

Session formats are not specified here, so confirm current session options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, avoid travel time, and use shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. They also allow people to continue work with a licensed professional even when life circumstances change, while keeping focus on clear goals and usable tools.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

New Jersey, Florida, Massachusetts, North Dakota, Arizona

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she commonly address?

She helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship difficulties, grief, trauma, and life transitions.

What is her therapy style like?

Her work combines listening with hands-on strategies. Sessions mix insight about patterns with concrete skills to use between meetings.

How much experience does she have?

She has 24 years of clinical experience across mental health, addiction services, homelessness, incarceration settings, and work with veterans.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds MA LICSW and ND LCSW credentials and is based in New Jersey.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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